ayyo ma, whats good? word? you ugly anyway

lets speak for a little about a thing called confidence. confidence is not to be confused with arrogance. confidence is you believing in what you deserve. when approaching a woman, you want to go about it as if you have nothing to lose. realistically, you dont. the only thing that makes you hesitate even for the slightest of a nanosecond is your own doubt in your ability. you want to get a woman like MY woman kerry?



you have to possess confidence, son! okay, obviously im not really with kerry washington, but why would she say 'im busy that night, but ill take your number'? another reason is because i probably couldnt take care of her because im broke. BUT personality-wise, any man has a shot at any woman. you of course should have some things in common so another question is where do i find these ladies? at events or places that you frequent. are you into books? hit up a barnes and nobles or another small bookstore. go to author readings. into fashion? post up at FIT. sure, a lot of those girls are cokeheads and EXTRA promiscuous, but if thats what youre into, go for it.

the point is, sometimes you just have to say fuck it. that goes for you too, ladies. know what you want and seize it. BUT, play it cool. you're not going to get with ryan reynolds


if you call him 10 times a day and tell him how cute he is and you dont deserve him. that makes you crazy, lame, and a nutjob. no one wants to date to a person who is just too into you. space it out just a tad but stay true to yourself. if you want to call her the first night you get the number, call.....but at a reasonable time. dont call her an hour after you get her number. thats a creep move.

another thing is self-worth. you have to love yourself and you have to know what you deserve. think of it like this, how can you love another if you dont love yourself.

just saying